The most common mistakes men do when
they search for a wife in Russia
1. Judge women by photos. Glamourous photos, photos as if they are from women's magazine attract their attention.
It is interesting but 80 percent of letters are received by 20 percent of women. But they are not more beautiful,
they are not more interesting than others. They have just better pictures than others.
Men do not pay attention to psychological test result ,to compatibility. But they will live with a woman, not with pictures. They will be unhappy if
they have beautiful wife that is always makes rows or constantly nagging and does not want to sleep with them.
Quite recently I talked to a man from Spain, he was complaining that he had got acquainted by Internet with several Russian ladies, they were
completely breathtaking in their pictures, but when he came to meet them they were just average, not superordinary not like those models on the podiums.
He was walking along the streets of St-Petersburg and saw many beautiful Russian girls walking along the street, they were not in hurry, talked with
their friends, lauphed a lot. Why then did he meet Russian ladies who were beautiful in the pictures, but were tired, dull, not funny? Yes, it can
happen also. If a girl exausts herself with work (she has, for example, to care alone for her child or she needs to rent an apartmnet and it is very
expensive in Russia ) she looks not her best, and you can't imagine how she changes after rest or after she does not need to work so hard. By
accident, all the Russian girls that he met were hard working ones and he saw them after full working day (in one case after a night shift). And he
saw in the street Russian girls who had holidays or were students and so had vacations or even does not work at all as they had boyfriends who cared
for them. That's where from such a difference!
2. The second mistake the men who are looking for a Russian bride do is the result of this also. Many men look for models in appearance, they want to
be an envy of all their friends. But they want to live with normal girls- warm, kind-hearted, faithful.
But most girls who look like models do not want real relationship, they want just men's admiration, they want to
be the center of attention. But they do not need closeness, intimacy, warmth.
The second reason is that even if there is such a paragon who combines model appearance with warmth and comfort. They are very rare. We have a joke
Two men are sitting near a fireplace. One man says looking in the fire. I was never married in my life. - Why? - I was alwasy searching for a
perfect woman for me. - And? Did not you find her? - No, I found her. But I was not a perfect man for her.
It is a sad joke but I have met some men who were acting like this and I saw them on different sites for more than 10 years.
3. The next mistake is a choice! Men just can't stop (some women are into this also). The best is an enemy of good enouph.They find someone, meet,
everything is all right but they continue to look and look for new women. They are poisoned by an idea that maybe somewhere there is a
person with whom it is better, who is more interesting.
4. Men register to the site, but they do not want to place any photo there or they place a photo where it is
impossible to see them or they put terrible photos. Some men are under illusion that pictures do not mean
anything for women. It is men who choose by pictures, but women prefer them to write clever words, write about
their profession, their hobbies. Yes, it is good when you write a lot about you, but for women a lot is
determined by your pictures. They do not want men to look like models (in fact, men-models will most likely
frighten them away, but they want to see your smile, to see your eyes, to feel calmness and reliability that
comes from you, for some it is important to see you in your home. And only then they will read about your
hobbies, about your interests and what you like. They are often easy victims of scammers - scammers do not pay
attention to pictures and ready to answer or write to them themselves without asking for new pictures.
5. About 50 percent of men who register on the site prefer to sign on and then wait for Russian beautiful girls
to write to them. Guess who has more letters, more choice and more chances to find their love, these 50 percent
who are just sitting and waiting for their dream girl to write to them or men who are active themselves, who
search themselves and who answer also women who write to them? Yes, the second group of men has much higher
chances, especially if to take into account that many women do not want to be the initiators of the communication,
they have traditional views on this and regard men as an active side.
6. But the strategy that surpsises me most is the attitude of some men who need 10 times (or something like that)
of confirmation that this particular woman wants to communicate with them. They send women a wink, receive a
letter or a wink in return, then send her a postcard, receive something, then wink, wink, wink, after 6 such
"signs of attention" most women begin to get tired from this and stop answering. Then they continue to send these
signs to the women of his choice. But most Russian girls are already not interested in them.
7. The last common mistake is that men want to find many women to visit in Russian and only then come, but in reality women who were interested in
them loose interest after some time and search for somebody else, men continue their search in the attempt to find more ladies, but again, some
ladies do not want to wait for him unknown amount of time and after some time when he does not answer when he can come they stop being interested in
him. It is an endless process for them
Communication with clients
I had met some very nice people from Russia in my neighborhood and thought about trying out online dating with
Russian women, but I wonder if after I brought my Russian bride to USA she will leave me and go to another man.
The divorce can happen in any marriage. For marriage to last, it should bring something to any party involved.
Think, what you can give to your wife- stability, joy, caring and love, rich life or possibility to travel. Think,
what you want to receive from her- love and caring, warmth, envy of your friends and partners, joy and romance.
Think, if the exhcange is equal - if what you give will equal to what you want. Search for a woman for whom what
you can give is really valuable. Use our test, it can tell you also what is important for her. If the
relationship is equal and both partners see that they receive the same as give, then no woman will leave you.
This was an advice about marriage to any woman. As for Russian, for many Russian women family has a great value,
many of them have unhappy mothers who were divorced by their fathers and alone from then or have happy mothers
who are happy becuase they have happy family life and see it as a prime happiness in life. For Russian girls a
happy family is the most successful career. Just do not go only after beautiful appearance, look further, look for soul and love.
My friend has a Russian wife and I would like to find a Russian bride. But will it be easy for me to bring her to USA?
You will need to meet her in Russia first. Find, meet, if you really want her to be your bride, then you can make
a fiancee visa for her and bring her to USA. Many Americans found their love here, they had no problem to bring
their bride to USA and marry there. But just know that no Russian girl can come to USA (to work, for tourist visa
or by invitation) to meet you there. If a girl proclaims that she can do it she is very probably a scammer.
I am fascinated by Russian girls, but I have heard that these Russian golddiggers in short skirts marry Americans for their money.
There is percent of women in USA, in Russia, in other countries that want to marry a man for his money. But Russian girls who want to marry a man for
money prefer now to marry rich Russians but not Americans or other Western men. No Americans will throw away money like rich Russians ( "new
Russians") can do. No American will lavish such presents on their girlfriends as rish Russians will do. So Russian women who want to sell their
beauty and youth for richies drive in their Mersedeses, Lexuses along the streets in Moscow, St-Petersburg, Kiev. The girls who come to the agency
came there to search for Love, for marriage, for family. This is important for them.
Can Russian girls search for a husband abroad to get a green card?
Russia has a period of relative economical and political stability now. That is why Russian women don't try to immigrate using all possible ways and
leave the man after settling in another country. Family values have the primary important for Russian women, they want to have loyal husbands,
they want to have children, they want to have happiness and fun in their family life.
I have heard that some of these Russians, as pretty as they are, used to be prostitutes.
Prostitutes very rarely look for husbands abroad. If they are beautiful, great-looking, they have very good profit here, they prefer to "live" and
not look into future. When she becomes old and not interesting, she won't have a chance to meet anybody on Russian dating sites also. In any case,
prostitutes have different mentality. You will feel this when you communicate with her. Many human values are not important for them. Do not look
for girls who want only your money, look for girls who are interested in YOU.
A friend of mine brought to my attention the idea of meeting Russian ladies. He suggested putting my info on one
of dating sites and waiting for beautiful Russian models write to me.
Why don't you want to be active yourself? To search and find Russian ladies that you are interested in? Many say that even average Russian girls
looks like models in the West, but Russian most beautiful ladies (and men when they come to the site flawlessly find them and want their attention)
have big amount of letters, they can choose, and if it is not a scammer, usually she has enouph to choose among and won't write to men. Do you want
to be chosen? Write to her, make your letter interesting, ask some questions, write something interesting about yourself.
Can you suggest any method to choose? There are so many Russian ladies on the site, and I feel at a loss what ladies to write to?
The site has a set of five hearts that shows compatibility with girls on the site. I would recommend to search for women who are compatible with you
(an option in the search or just look in the gallery, you can see instant compatibility rate). Then look attentively at Russian ladies who you are
compatible with, read their profiles, look at their pictures, and write to girls you like.
Another thing is to think what you suggest to her, where she will live with you after her marriage. If you live in a remote place, far from big
cities and many people, it is better to look for librarians or nurses, for women from small places, girls from big cities will soon get tired of
so small place, and can run away from you.
The problems with choice face many men , that's where from their desire to be chosen by women, and answer only to
women who will write to them.Use the instant compatibility rate and it won't be difficult for you but will help you to avoid many mistakes.
I think, I am ready now for a personal meeting with a lady I am corresponding now. How can we do it? Do I have to come to Russia?Can she come to USA?
No, you have to come to Russia or meet in the country that does not need a visa to enter (Turkey, Egypt, Jamaika).
Though we recommend to come to Russia and meet her and if you fall in love her relatives here. First, it will
help you to avoid scammers ("women" that tells that they can come to you to USA or European country, but they
just need you to send money for the trip (at least half of it). But alas ... they take money but never come).
Second, it will help you to understand better your bride, her surroundings, her family.
Yes, the trip to Russia takes some time, it takes some money, but if you find your love, it is worth it.
But first, phone to her, talk with her several time, if everything is all right, then go!